2009/02/27

Relationships

One thing a lot of people today have on their minds is relationships. Relationships are one of the most complicated things if you are someone that likes to talk to people. Sometimes relationships with people are easy but, with some people they aren't so easy. It really takes a while to develop a nice strong relationship with some people because not everyone will trust you or even be comfortable with you in some situations. Also trying to develop a relationship will show the true side of that person and not just what you see on a daily basis. Sometimes when relationships cause problems people just give up and want it to be over with right away but, they shouldn't. I guess i could understand giving up a relationship with some things but, if you have had a relationship for a while i think people should try their hardest to make it right. And if they can't then the only thing left to do is move on and forget about the past. Some relationships you have to live without. I used to deal with the problem of having bad relationships and wanting to fix them all the time but I realized that with some people it is best to leave them alone. All relationships don't have bad endings but how can you ever tell which one will? The answer is looking at how many ups and downs you have had in the relationship. Too many of those means that you obviously aren't meant to be so what pushes people into still wanting a relationship? People worry to much about relationships that aren't anything too important. I'm sure most people have had a friend or two where the relationship was messed up and you wanted to make it better but there really is no need. Plus there are many other people everywhere that you can start making relationships with.

MY PET PEEVES

There are some things that I can stand but there are other things that no matter how hard I try I just can't put up with. I call these things my pet peeves. The first thing I really can't stand is hypocrites. Why would anyone tell you not to do something that they would turn around and do? It doesn't make sense. Another one of my pet peeves is a person that becomes a habitual liar. It tears me up on the inside when someone lies to me. It gets to me even more when you know they are lying and they simply deny it. I don't believe friends should every lie to one another. If they do then that makes them fake. That leads me to my next pet peeve which is fake people. Most people these days seem like they're fake with the lying, turning their backs on you, not speaking to you, not being trustworthy. Jealousy is something else that gets on my nerves because being jealous in my opinion doesn't help a situation. And it just gets in the way of the friendship. I don't like it when girls take their jealousy problems out on me because its like they are acting very immature. My last most important pet peeve is self-centered people. Have you ever in your life talked to someone and all they talked about was themselves? I sometimes have to deal with people like that and it gets on my nerves because I want to talk about other things but, people are just so into themselves. It's always their life...their life...their life. I wonder if they ever get tired of talking about the same thing over and over again. How can you even expect to have a really nice relationship if you don't get to know the person? well these are all my pet peeves...I hope the people that do these things that know me stop before they lose their friendships.

2009/02/20

The Power of Imagination

What's the thing in life with no limits? What is it that everyone creative has? We call it imagination and it affects life in every way possible. Without imagination where would we all be in society? Everything would be the same and ordinary. Nothing would be the same without the power of imagination. Some of the ways life is affected by imagination is through technology, art and even education. How can people get a better education if all schools were just regular schools that were for kids smart and not so smart? How would we be living without the invention of vacuums or the Internet? Imagination changed the world in many ways people really don't realize. It makes life easier for everyone. Imagination even shapes the world today and it will continue because it is truly limitless. Everyone has imagination in them they just have to bring it out. if everyone contributed some of their imagination we would be able to make the impossible possible and create a different atmosphere. An atmosphere where no one would think that their ideas were unwanted and the world would be like a paradise. 
Some ways I use my imagination is completing things at school or even drawing and writing on my spare time. With imagination I'm creating ways to create and get things done. President Barack Obama uses his imagination helping our country with its troubles. Even some of the smallest things that you realize involves imagination actually does. Throughout the rest of every ones lifetime imagination will only get more creative and we will definitely see that as it changes the world.

WHAT IS FEAR REALLY?

What comes to mind when you think of the word fear? Is it really being scared or is it just not having confidence in yourself? With some situations fear really holds people back from what they want to do. Whether it's performing or even just talking to that girl that you have been wanting to talk to. What makes people so afraid of things that they aren't sure will have a bad outcome? If people really have confidence in their selves with what they do then what holds them back? There are so many questions about fear but the answer is truely that we don't believe in our selves to a certain extent. Some of the things that help get rid of the feeling of fear are peer pressure and even the frustration of having fear inside of you. People should realize that, with fear inside of them how could they ever hope to accomplish goals in life. How can they ever talk to that girl or even with their only chance perform that play? Fear affects so many people but is their away to prevent it? What makes people so afraid anyway?Is it just being scared of the unknown or has it developed from having low-selfestem. For the people who have fear from low-selfestem were probably picked on alot growing up and it really hurt them and put them in the position where they don't feel like the things they do will really look good in the eyes of others. And for the people being scared of the unknown should learn to give things a try. Not everything has a bad outcome.